Thariska Manokumar

By: Tharsika Manokumar

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Even before I became a nurse, I knew I wanted to work in palliative care. It began when I volunteered at a hospice right after undergrad. Those early experiences made me realize the power nurses have when caring for patients and families through some of their hardest times—not just in being present, but in advocating for the best care possible. After six years as a bedside nurse, I was ready for a new challenge, which led me to my role as a Palliative Care Coordinator in Rowntree’s Palliative Care Program.

Having lived in Scarborough since 2005 and being Tamil myself, joining SHN has been a meaningful way to return to my roots. Caring for patients who share cultural values, language, and experiences similar to my upbringing brings deep meaning. Seeing a familiar face and understanding cultural nuances provides comfort and builds trust with families.

In palliative care, every day I balance clinical care and empathy. I guide patients and families through transitions—whether going home or to hospice—helping them voice their goals and make informed decisions. I remember one family whose daughter initially saw our involvement as giving up. With patience, clear communication, and reassurance, she eventually trusted us and later reached out to thank me. Moments like that remind me why I do this work.

I love Scarborough for its diversity. Every neighbourhood has something to offer, from food to activities to the warmth of its people. At SHN, I’m part of a team as diverse as the community we serve—physicians, nurse practitioners, and coordinators all working together to ensure continuity and compassionate care.

Supporting the Love, Scarborough campaign is my way of giving back to a community that has given me so much. Palliative care is about helping people live life fully until the end, managing symptoms, planning for the future, and enabling meaningful experiences—celebrating birthdays, connecting with community, or pursuing hobbies in whatever capacity is possible. By supporting families and patients in this way, we create a safety net and empower them to live with dignity and purpose.

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